A person who is content and has peace of mind is very unlikely to project anger and bitterness on a regular basis.We’ve all been in the company of someone who makes us feel on edge, uneasy or unsure of ourselves.
Some people tend to have natural abilities when it comes to dealing with others, they tend to be able to read other people quite well and can read between the lines.
She went on to explain that these negative behaviours were projections of inner misery and chaos.
Ever since then, when I meet someone who spews out anger and negativity, it offers me a glimpse of how awful their internal experience of the world is.
Look at the other person as someone to figure out and understand rather than someone to challenge. This is a generalisation but I have come across many clients who seem intensely gruff on the outside but once you get to know them, you realise it’s all a ‘front’.
Ask questions such as “and how is that going to work? They have, more often than not, adapted this behaviour to cover up their own insecurities.