Men and dating after divorce
One cannot move forward smartly without having that little something called emotional intelligence.This is ones ability to be self-aware and manage that which we know about ourselves in a way that maximizes our ability to be happy with ourselves and have mutually beneficial relationships with others.This comes with its own set of challenges, but you also need to keep in mind some aspects of the divorce can come back to haunt you.Despite finally being over, there may be things that need to be addressed months, or even years down the road.In this, one could argue that men move forward after divorce quicker than women. There is a difference between moving forward and moving forward smartly. Statistically speaking, women have sex sooner after divorce than men. For starters, more women (2 to 1 margin compared to men) complain of a bad sex life during marriage.As well, the sex drive of women peaks at a much older age than men and thus their desire for sex is higher at the average age (37) that someone divorces.In some states, if you pay to your ex directly and she decides not to acknowledge the payment as support, you still owe the support and could end up paying twice.
It does us no good to reflect back on what we’ve been through if we do not take the time to console our inner being.
Third, moving forward ntellectually requires one to think about what they want, what they need, and what they are ready for.
Tammy may want a no strings attached relationship and she may in fact be ready for that.
This will, and does, prove beneficial in the long run.
Sorry men (of which I am one) but women move forward more quickly after divorce.