Modern dating stages
The only games a grown woman should play are pétanque, backgammon and bridge…Need a potential date escape route?Download SMS Scheduler to automatically text three of your closest friends to call you one hour in. Don't assume it's exclusive for the first five dates: he'll still be looking and so should you.• Refine, rather than eradicate, traces of your ex.Scoping out a potential beau online is prudent (call it research), stalking is not. Try a button-up dress (unbuttoned a few fastenings above the knee), a scoop-back dress (for the walk to the bathroom), or a failsafe crisp white T-shirt with lace-up stiletto booties.If you know his aunt's name and what each of his sisters studied at university, or have added his ex to your Instagram feed, you've crossed the line. Post-date: turn off Read Receipts - you have four hours maximum to reply.Benching (v): Also known as putting someone on the “back burner,” the bench is where you put someone just in case you want to pick up and start dating them more seriously again.
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) Cuffing Season (n): Starting in the early fall, this is the time of year when singles want to partner up and settle down so they have someone to hang out with during the cold, mostly indoor months of winter.
Cushioning (v): When you have one main squeeze you’re dating, but perhaps you’re not sure about the relationship so you have several “cushions,” or other romantic prospects in case it doesn’t work out.
Enjoy the friendzone if that is all that transpires. Save obvious man-repellers - like a swamping hoodie - for dinner with girlfriends and opt instead for simple, alluring silhouettes.
Dress with intention (a potential date can pop up at any time).